tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9145005867650591122.post86119756657851777..comments2022-11-10T03:55:46.550-08:00Comments on HOUSE OF TOY PORN: When Gym Workout Proponents become bulliesZackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16352813796075174907noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9145005867650591122.post-23855185916734259402013-03-21T00:28:58.425-07:002013-03-21T00:28:58.425-07:00Excercising and eating right is always good. But l...Excercising and eating right is always good. But like you said it never reflects how one would look nor should anyone be in the position to judge.CYAnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9145005867650591122.post-33060778525498055512013-03-20T21:01:17.506-07:002013-03-20T21:01:17.506-07:00Well the intentions here are anything but good. Ca...Well the intentions here are anything but good. Can you just go up to an overweight member of your family and just tell them that they are ugly for being that way and they should go workout or risk being a social pariah?? <br /><br />This article explains the issue very well : http://www.theborneopost.com/2013/03/17/fat-shaming-shame-on-you/Zackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16352813796075174907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9145005867650591122.post-8571791400863497292013-03-06T19:03:42.107-08:002013-03-06T19:03:42.107-08:00I have an example I can give you.
Someone with a ...I have an example I can give you.<br /><br />Someone with a good intention says to a child, <i>"Don't look at the monitor / screen for too long, you'd spoil your eyesight."</i><br /><br />Which isn't too wrong, although technically, refresh rates of monitors and screens these days have come a very long way since the displays of 1970s.<br /><br />Then they follow that statement up with, <i>"If you spoil your eyesight you'd have to wear glasses. Then you'd look ugly."</i><br /><br />And that is where the crux of the problem lies. I'm sure you're able to spot it.<br /><br />What they did was inevitably telling the child that wearing glasses is ugly and has already thrown the original intention far off course in just a few more words.<br /><br />Make a statement, don't add in opinions after that.<br /><br />I want to note that we all make these mistakes, and I did it before as well, but learn from it and be sure to know when to stop the next time.<br /><br />CYAnoreply@blogger.com